Deadheading for More Flowers and Other Garden Tasks

Marigold from Our Maryland Garden

Today and yesterday I spent my gardening time (probably about an hour total) pulling weeds, pruning our butterfly bushes, trying to get rid of some small trees (aka weeds in this case) that were growing up and crowding the butterfly bushes (using my pruning shears - not very effective but at least they're shorter and not hogging the sunlight now) and deadheading flowers.  I'd like to know how long it takes just to do the deadheading (removing spent flowers) but I never seem to single task on that so until I do I won't know for sure. It doesn't take nearly as long as weeding though and it's a lot more fun (at least for me). Better Homes and Gardens has a nice article on how to deadhead with photos of different plant types and their individual deadheading needs (I have no financial relationship with them other than being a paid subscriber of their magazine; I just like the article).

Deadheading is kind of like a moving meditation for me. Depending on the flower I gently tug or snap (e.g., daylilies), pinch (e.g., marigolds) or clip (e.g. shasta daisies and coneflowers) the spent blooms (although once fall approaches I leave some spent blooms such as the coneflower heads alone so they provide winter interest and bird food). Sometimes I pray, sometimes I talk to the plants, and, if no one's around I might even sing to them. It's relaxing and fun. The garden immediately looks better and it's a good feeling to know that taking care of this task will likely result in more flowers than if it hadn't gotten done.

What is your favorite routine garden task?

Ravaged Herb Garden, Seedling Updates and Plant Thinning Planning

Last week I mentioned that my next project was to trim back the herb plants that were within six inches of our house. I also planned to divide some of the plants so they could be added to our xeric garden. I even thought there might be enough left to do some bartering. Unfortunately for my plans my well intentioned husband got to it first and he was kind of ruthless (he filled up two trash cans with herb plants and cuttings... but the silver lining is that our trash bins never smelled better).

I still need to move the rosemary (it's too close to the house) but until fall I'll probably just take cuttings from the side nearest the house so it doesn't touch the siding and then move it when it's less likely to stress the plant.

The zinnia seedlings I planted in April are starting to bud. Hopefully we'll have some colorful blooms in another week or two.

Last week I mentioned that I'd need to sacrifice one of these two tangled seedlings. It appears that the one on the left is stronger and the one on the right will need to go. I'll likely take care of that after I finish this post.

This is the best looking of the butterfly bush seedlings that I planted in May (the two tangled seedlings are also from the same batch). I'm not sure if we'll get blooms from them this year but so far we only have one casualty (although it'll be two once I sacrifice the smaller of the tangled ones) so that should leave us with four free butterfly bushes (unless we have more casualties).

You've probably noticed that this is more of a nitty gritty garden journal than a pretty picture garden journal. I do a weekly pretty picture garden post at my Inspirational Blog and here's the link to this week's photos: http://lovejoyandpeas.blogspot.com/2012/06/fun-flowers-and-foliage-this-week-in-my.html. Happy Gardening! May the Master of all Gardens (God) bless you this week and always!

Next Two Projects: Moving Herbs and Improving a Bench

In  hopes that posting our next two garden projects will get us moving on them sooner rather than later I thought I'd share them with you here. Above is our herb garden. We have a few other herbs tucked here and there but the majority of our herbs are in this narrow planting bed on the sunny side of our house (the back yard is shady and the other side yard is deeply shaded).

I read somewhere recently that plants shouldn't really be within six inches of the house (to keep bugs from nesting in there or climbing from the plants up behind the siding). Of course, I knew they shouldn't be right up close but I guess I thought four inches would be sufficient. Either way, to be safe I've decided to move, trim back and/or divide the herbs that are too close to the house. Some will be given to friends and some will be planted in our hot mess/xeric garden and I might even try bartering some herb cuttings for some coleus cuttings (I want to try to root some coleus for our shaded areas) or milkweed seeds (my kind Facebook friend Rich told me that milkweed attracts monarch butterflies).

My husband said he'd do this one because he likes to be the bearer of power tools but if he doesn't have time to get to it by the time I've finished the above project and am ready for the next one I will likely tackle it (although I might move a bunch of the snow on the mountain from the backyard first because it's choking out some of our more valuable plants).

Clearly the bench needs to be cleaned. But the bigger issue (and the reason we never use it) is that water pools at the base of the seat (and so does debris). Thanks to a Family Handyman book I learned that we can drill small holes at the lowest points of the seat and voila - we'll have drainage. The debris will be easier to brush off because it shouldn't be soaking wet and moldy anymore. Once that's done we plan to move this bench from the back yard to the front yard (there's a spot all ready for it) and we'll have a nice outdoor reading nook.

Transplanting Seedlings, Fixing a Plant and Weeding

 One of our wax begonias was almost uprooted and hanging sideways out of the planter.

So I straightened it out and added extra dirt around it. There were holes here and there and I suspect a squirrel had been digging or hiding its treasures in the planter box so I filled those holes too.

A few weeks ago I clipped off a flower stalk full of seedlings (I hadn't gotten around to trimming the bush back yet) from our dark bluish purple butterfly bush plant and planted a bunch of the seeds in a 4 inch pot. Those seedlings had at least two sets of true leaves so it was time to get them in the ground. There were 6 seedlings but they were all squished together and their little roots weren't very strong (it's not the best idea to start seedlings in the heat of June so this isn't shocking). I'll be happy if even two end up surviving. Really only 5 have a chance because two had their roots intertwined and I planted them together. In a couple of days I'll thin the one that looks least healthy and hope the other lives. The seedling above is planted at the front left corner of our house (if facing the house) next to some of our rose of Sharon bushes.

This is what I've been calling my hot mess garden. About two years ago one of our giant hedges fell victim to a super heavy snow and ice storm. The tree guys left us a huge pile of woodchips and my husband and I couldn't agree as to whether to plant another hedge plant, make it a butterfly garden or do something else with it. So the mulch pile just sat there until this April. Why April? We had some major plumbing work that involved excavating most of our front yard and everything that we had time to save that had been in our front yard beds got tossed into whatever pots, buckets and receptacles we had handy. When it was time to replant the survivors my husband said he didn't want so many irises in front. We agreed that I could plant the extra in our hot mess garden. You can see the irises towards the bottom left of the planting bed in the photo above. Ok, it's not really a planting bed but what's left of the mulch pile. There's also a lot of weeds. That's a project for another day though.

So, I've been tossing extra seedlings and plants that don't need any attention in the hot mess garden. It turns out that I actually have a xeric garden going on there (one that doesn't need much water). I plan to check out The Xeric Gardener blog soon for more tips on making this a low maintenance garden. I'd also like it to attract butterflies. Mostly I want it to look less bad though. It's kind of an eyesore right now.

So, I planted the rest of the butterfly bush seedlings in the xeric garden (previously known as my hot mess garden). Just in case I forgot what the seedlings look like I surrounded them by extra large pieces of much or pine cones (so I don't pull them out when it's time to weed or lay landscape fabric over them if I get around to that soon).

 This is a cosmos seedling my husband kindly transplanted to our xeric garden this weekend.

This is a blooming cosmos plant that I transplanted to the xeric garden a few weeks ago. Both of the cosmos plants' seeds were sown at the same time (in March) but they are different varieties of cosmos and the one not blooming yet should have pink or white flowers

This is a piece of a lemon balm plant that I thought might be beyond salvation but it seems to be recovering just fine. One of the gardening tasks on my to do list is to make sure the plants in our herb garden (on the sunny side of our house) are at least six inches away from the house. When I get around to that I'll be adding some herbs to the (so far) no cost xeric garden. I love that, even though it's ugly right now, in a few years we should have a nice xeric garden that attracts butterflies and may not end up costing us any extra money. The biggest challenge with the location of the xeric garden is that people walking their dogs seem to let them do their business on my plants. We've already lost two cosmos seedlings because of that. Hopefully by having the larger plants by the street this will be less of an issue.

Thank you for joining me on my garden journey!

What's going on in your garden? Have you ever seen a xeric garden or a no cost garden?

Why another blog?

I've been thinking about a nitty gritty gardening blog or journal for a while. I've tried paper journals and they just didn't work out for gardening. I really enjoy my weekly garden photos for my inspirational blog but I don't think that the inspirational blog is quite the place for logging my sporadic attempts at garden improvement. This will be the place for me to log what I'm doing in my garden. My gardening tends to come in 15-30 minute bursts and only happens when the temperatures are comfortable. Most of the work happens in spring and fall so posts will likely be light in the summer. Still, I think this will be fun for me and provide a nice history of what I've done and when and I hope that it will inspire other benign neglect (so much nicer than lazy!) gardeners too. If you want to know anything more specific about what I'm doing or how I did something in my garden just let me know! Thank you for joining me on my garden journey!

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